IBTYF.pdf

Anonymous asked:
i imagine that strict american doms (and other countries without free health
care) punish subs for consenting to expensive procedures and treatments

Yes- money is a big part of it, although there’s also just Doms wanting to have the final say
over everything in their family and being displeased when that isn’t the case (it’s almost a
public embarrassment for a Dom’s sub to go over their head and make decisions for them)
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Anonymous asked:
The thing that bothers me about Andy is that he's controlling and tends to think
he knows what's better for subs than they do for themselves. It just seems like
that is exactly how most doms treat subs and what Queen is trying to fight
against.

Andy certainly has his flaws and being controlling is one of them. That’s why James is such a
good sub for him- James has no problem telling his Dom when he’s being too controlling and
speaking his mind. Andy gets a lot better at recognising his behaviour as he gets older, mostly
thanks to James’s influence.
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Anonymous asked:
just sent the baby nate is sick ask and i just thought of a question about the ibtyf
universe: does john have full rights over his sons treatment, would all consent
for surgeries and treatments (ivs, blood tests, xrays,etc) have to go through
brian (as his the nominated dom), would it only be in an emergency when the
dom in charge of the sub/subs and minors is unavailable that a sub gets to be
the consenting parent/ adult